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What if .... You are in a relationship. A long term relationship . Today, You had a doctor's appointment. You told your partner about the doctor's appointment -weeks before the day. he will get off early enough to come pick you up in his car , to drive you home. He says he can't drive you home, his car is not wrecked. After your doctor's appointment, you order a Lyft. While you are in the Lyft, driving back home. Your partner calls you because he is at the Medical Office, waiting for you. It turns out He LIED about the car troubles- because He wanted to surprise you. He wanted to see you surprised and happy to see him. He also wanted to grab something to eat You tell Him you are in a Lyft, and He immediately gets angry at you. He wants you to apologize. What do you do?
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I would tell him to stop being a baby

Typo: he says his car is wrecked

@SquishyMommy1 lol. Right.

“Sorry but also, you said you couldn’t & I didn’t wanna be stranded”.

I would be like what do you want me to do come back to the medical place? He was also super late that he missed the appointment and everything. He’s in the wrong. I mean sweet thought but if he wanted it to work he should have shown up earlier

“So sorry daddy”??? What??

This is weird behaviour. He should have been there to take you and then could have taken you for food after. Pregnant women need to know their partners are there for them. He could surprise you in some fun other way but taking you to the doctor is the bare minimum!

“Grow up”

Sounds like he is young, immature & has some growing up to do before your kid gets here.

That's so weird, taking you out to eat could have been the surprise what did he expect you to sit there after your appointment until the end of time? He should have got there early if it was gonna work at all 🤦🏻‍♀️

Weird. I wouldn’t be with someone like this.

a grown responsible man who loves you, would never expect you to apologize on this. coz he would know that it’s his silly mistake. ask him what was he expecting from you? to keep waiting in the clinic for him like a fool? as if he doesn’t know you are an independent woman who can use cab whenever you want.. that’s so childish

He didn’t lie, he just wanted to surprise you

What a think to do, to try and surprise you at a doctors office 🤨 yeah no, that's childish that after that he has the audacity to get angry at you. I'm not apologising for shit as there's nothing to apologise for.

See. That's what you get. Now, be angry 😠

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On one hand it’s cute he wanted to surprise you. But he should have been there on time for the surprise to work. But if it didn’t work out according to his plan he shouldn’t blame you and expect you to apologise. Is he always like that or?

What kind of "surprise " is this? Keeping up to the plans you make isn't a surprise lol If he said he'll be there, he should've been there, and that isn't a 'gift' lol im dead 💀 #Men

@Nimco what if him telling her he was in wreck raised her blood pressure?

Yeah, anyone apologizing to him has zero backbone because absolutely not, what is this gremlin behaviour? Like, what was he expecting you to do? Wait around and hope he shows up even though he said he couldn’t? Absolutely not.

@Seemah that’s why I said on one hand it’s cute but then again it isn’t a real surprise cause yeah he could have caused her health issues

How else did he think you were getting home....he told you he couldn't pick you up because his car is wrecked my initial thought would be to find another method of getting home, which for you was a Lyft. What did he think was gonna happen 🙄

That's is not a way to surprise anyone. You didn't want to be left barefooted at the office.

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