Men

I would leave him. Because at that point “why are you here”. You can do all that alone without worrying about a grown person capable of taking care of themselves.

I would Tell him to get it together or get out! Why are you doing everything? That’s so unfair! And rude. Very inconsiderate. I couldn’t be with someone that lazy.

Tell him how you feel. If he doesn’t step up then he’s out. His behavior is building up resentment and that is a relationship killer. He needs to put the effort in.

It depends where your relationship is. Meaning, if you already had a conversation with him telling him how you feel and what needs to happen and he hasn’t done anything to get his stuff together, then it’s time to leave. These type of men will go as far as you allow it. He will make false promises knowing that you will stay with him. It’s not only disrespectful to you but extremely stressful and emotionally draining. It’s time for you to make yourself your priority. You are doing it all on your own anyway. If he doesn’t add anything to your life then he needs to subtract himself from it.

Last night, I told my husband who is working a full time job to get a second job. So...

I have talked to him about also cut WiFi off an yet nothing all I get is I’m not a kid quit talking to me like one. Feelings mean nothing to him

@Mikaela then he clearly doesn’t care, all the more reason to leave him or kick him out. Whichever one is easier for you.

@Cécile🍇🥐🍣🧋 wait why?

If you’ve talked to him about not working or doing anything and he still doesn’t care I would leave him. He doesn’t care about you or the child because if he did he would put effort into looking for a job or contribute in some way. I was in the same situation.

@Quanza because I work 2 jobs. And his mom came leaving with us. So while she can watch the kids he could take a few shifts so we can save up for a vacation next year.

If I may offer a different perspective - if this is new behavior for him and he hasn't always been this way, is it possible he is depressed? Even if he is, it is his responsibility to get help and try to improve the situation, but it may help you and your reactions/interactions with him to understand what is going. Regardless of the cause, if he refuses to change/get help/recognize any issue at all....... then you leave.