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Recently my husband’s grandmother has moved in with us. It’s supposed to be temporary until she can find a place. But omg! This lady is taking over. We can’t open windows cause she doesn’t like the breeze. If it’s anything less than 80 in the house she’s cold. She wants to put our couch in her room so she has a place to sit (she has a kitchen chair, a bed, AND my outside chair already) she’s in the baby’s room so he’s with us and now he won’t sleep through the night because he has never liked sharing a room. She won’t tell me if she’s hungry but then complains when my husband gets home that I didn’t feed her. When I do make something for her she says she doesn’t eat that. I made eggs the other day and she said she doesn’t like eggs. But when my man made them she “loved them” and “missed having them”. She keeps trying to smoke inside. She hates that our son goes in her room but won’t shut the door and demanded we move the baby gate. I’m actually going nuts! And then! Anytime I have my man watch the baby so I can shower or do the dishes she tells me “I had twins. You don’t need his help” like ITS HIS CHILD. IM SORRY YOU WERE A SINGLE MOM!?
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Learn more about our guidelines.And she hates when I go places with hubs. Or if we shut our bedroom door because I’m “taking her attention” like I’m his WIFE
Yeahhh she gotta move out! Have you talked about it to your husband? Maybe he could bring it up if they have a better relationship! She sounds very manipulative
You gotta get your husband to give her a move out date or ask her to be more considerate
@Zoé he wants her out just as much as I do. They are close but her being in our home is causing so much stress to both of us. The only problem is she doesn’t wanna live alone. But she also doesn’t want to go to an assisted living home. He’s been trying to push her to look for something but she thinks I’m the one wanting her gone and pulls the whole “well she doesn’t even like me” which isn’t true.
@Ellen what’s crazy is that’s just how she is. Like she’s so in her world she doesn’t even realize she does most these things
She liked me until we got married and had the baby. He’s told him that I’m stealing all her attention and that she doesn’t think she’s his priority anymore. To which he told her she’s important but she’s not number one. His family he made comes first and that set her OFF cause apparently I told him to tell her that. But I didn’t even know of the conversation until after it happened
I feel like for people who act like this you cannot give them options, only facts. Like girl you gotta go by this date and that’s it. Your husband has to be firm. He has a family to look after and respect. I really feel for you cause I’ve witnessed growing up how overbearing and controlling my grandma used to be when she lived with us growing up(she’s completely different now and everyone wants her around cause she respects boundaries and is just great company). She almost broke my step mom and dad up because of her intrusive behavior and overbearing attitude. He had to tell her how it was and she moved out.
Honestly I’d just give her a “you have to move out by [date]” it seems like she’s ruining your life and if your husband is on the same page she just has to! How rude to behave like this while expecting to be living in your home, that’s very ungrateful! Also this situation is going to destroy your relationship with her if it hasn’t already, it’s not good for anyone
Bye bye grandma