Seriously questioning why

Why are most women on this app? I have more horror stories than anything at this point. Is it just to pass time? Just to be nosey because some of us have stranger than the norm lifestyles, and then once curiosity is filled , the name of the game becomes ghosting? Why can't people respectfully say, " I appreciate the chat, but I'm not really feeling like this will go anywhere?" Is it so they don't have to pay for Tinder? I've had so many disrespectful individuals try to either be inappropriate with me or infiltrate my marriage. I literally only want to find one genuine and authentic friend who matches energy and doesn't try and borrow money because they'd rather complain about their financial status than work to get out of the hole. I will support you like you've never been supported before . I will be your biggest cheerleader, but if you refuse to do anything to help yourself, please don't expect me to continue listening to you cry and complain. I'm tired of transmuting bad and negative ass energy from these women and mothers who need to get it together and start putting action into place. Are we looking for friends or someone to take pity and tell us we are right and in the end pay our way? WHERE ARE ALL OF THE GENUINE, TAKE NO SHIT, HONEST, KEEPS THE DRAMA TO A MINIMUM, ACTUALLY WANTS TO DO THINGS BUT UNDERSTAMDS LIFE GETS IN THE WAY AND FAMILY COMES FIRST FRIEND MATERIAL AT???? I've got a plate at my table for you. Please come find me . Please understand I offer every bit of help I possibly can, and I do not go in judging anyone for anything. But after so long ya'll enough is enough .