Do I give him chance?

Ya know..looks aren’t everything. So I’m like give him a chance but at the same time how do you date someone you don’t find attractive?

But isn't attraction important. I vote to no.

Well so, for me I wasn’t initially physically attracted to my fiancé but I was emotionally and the physical attraction grew a little later on. I took things slow with him. Been together almost 6 years so I’d say give him a chance. Don’t overthink it.

Yeah give him a chance for 3 months. Attraction can grow, as you get to know them. The more you stare at someone the more attractive they get over time. It's a weird psychological trick.

My husband wasn't my usual type and had no fashion style, but I was attracted to his personality, and how he treated me. Now I found him handsome and redo his wardrobe. Physically attraction does grow as long as you don't find him repulsif lol

tbh that attraction can grow. it’s happened before.

Thanks guys.. He’s a great guy and as someone has said his personality is great just the physical aspect I’m like …eh. He lives an hour away and has two kids which isn’t a deal breaker for me I just tried the dating with multiple kids thing and it was a lot. But I don’t want to compare because his kids aren’t the other guys kids ya know? I know only I can make this choice but some input is nice so thank you all for your comments ☺️

haha not repulsive just a little unattractive to me. But we did meet on hinge where we would’ve had to match so I gotta find him a little attractive right? Lol

Oh.....well.....is there any point if he lives an hour away and has 2 kids? I feel like you'd never see him

yeah that was one of my cons that I communicated to him and just said we’d “figure” it out

That's meaningless. Nah I wouldn't bother.

If he was committed to making things happen with you he would say "the kids are at their mums every x day and I don't work that day, I can drive down and see you every week".