He’s a real winner yall
My boyfriend makes me feel insecure. About my body, about sex about almost anything to do with me at all.
He’s not very cute but he acts like his shit don’t stink!
Now he’s obsessed with women. Not me, other women he’s never been with. He watches porn like it’s a movie and told me it’s because I neglected his wiener. So I put in more effort, and guess what? He wasn’t happy even after he got off. He seemed to do it like it was some kinda chore to do. Was very unhappy, anyway he went on to complain and say it’s been 3 days in a row. Like I told him, I will drain his balls everyday. I’m starting to think he has an addiction because why wouldn’t a guy want it? Or maybe he just wants to do things himself? Idk. Feeling insecure far as not wanting sexual contact with me, only porn and his hand. He refuses to buy any sexy clothes and told me he’s going to break the new vibrator i bought and had shipped to my dad’s house because he’s not going to break it, and I can hide it easier.
The part that pisses me off is he’s allowed to do whatever but breaks my vibrators. Why? He won’t answer me. He wants me to rely on him for my sexual needs. Btw I don’t watch porn. I like my toys tho because I have to hurry up and get it done before he catches me.
Then he says I’m abusive. I’m abusive because I want a normal sex life? I’m abusive because I want my man to desire me the way he desires porn stars? I’m abusive because I make him a lunch for work everyday that he would rather tell me he’s going out to lunch. Like the purpose of me packing him a lunch is so he doesn’t have to be bothered going out to eat every damn day. Why? Because he bitches to me about money. It’s just like an ultimate fuck you. Me cleaning then him wearing shoes in the house, pees on the floor in front of the toilet, takes a whole bag of onions and all the crunchy outer layers on the floor. Remember this dude bitches because he can’t clean up after himself.
I’m not doing everything for this person he can get off his ass and pull his own weight in this family. He also very unappreciative about me being a stay at home mom taking care of our son. Remember, I’m not a stay at home girl friend, I’m a mother. My child is 2. Not 29.
You may be wondering why am I sticking with this dude?
My son is on the autism spectrum. He needs extra assistance, and can’t get it while his dad is at work. So my son’s dad has me convinced he is going to hurt me if I take him to court for child support, or he won’t pay it. He’s trapping me so I feel like I have to stay to watch my child, cuz he sure as hell don’t.
Idk how to make this work with special needs. I don’t have family in the area and we have created a life out here with therapy and school, all that stuff. I feel lost, trapped and don’t know anyway out. I know some won’t understand but it’s the sad honest truth. I wish I was making all this crap up, but it’s my reality
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Honestly I’m so sorry you are going through this. Like what in the actual fuck!?! This is not good for your mental health or your baby’s. I’m sure you’re a very beautiful woman who deserves all the love and attention in the world but most definitely men get addicted to porn & it’s disgusting especially when they have a partner. They create these sick fantasies but won’t be open to their significant other to talk about what they really want. Sex should be about both people being satisfied & you should be able to play with yourself if need because he ain’t gonna do it, I feel like women get shamed for that but it’s acceptable for men to jerk off all day?? & then the part where you are making lunch for him & he still has the audacity to try to say he wants to go out to eat. A home cooked meal is way better than anything you buy with the addition of saving money. like you said girl you are not a stay at home girlfriend he definitely needs to pull his own weight you have your hands full
If he’s threatening you I feel like that’s all the more reason to leave and I’m sure it won’t be an easy decision but you got to think about your son and what is best for the both of you. There’s lots of help for single mothers but also reach out to your family (if you’re on good terms) I’m sure they will understand if you need to move back and support you with your decision.
Beat him at the game he's playing. Don't allow him to bring you misery, Life is too short and too beautiful to allow someone else to bring you down.
Master the game of chess! And when you build up your confidence leave.
I'd say don't have sex with him anymore. Put your pussy on a pedestal.
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