cannot finish
i have been with a few people before and not one of them has been able to make me finish. i can do it myself, but when it comes to doing it with a partner, it never happens. it’s gotten really frustrating and im not sure what to do because it makes them feel bad and makes me feel bad too. it’s not like it doesn’t feel good but i would like to be able to have an o with them as well. any tips?
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I feel this my god, it’s so frustrating and makes me not want to have sex with anyone again. Idk how it’s so hard???
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Yeah it's a real problem! I am bi and I find it especially an issue with men. I think for some of us the big O Is a lil complicated. I found omgyes had useful tips. Basically you gotta communicate and be very explicit.
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