What’s your responses to people saying ‘you’re pregnant not disabled’ when you feel nauseous all the time, no food is sitting right and you’re just tired 24/7 because that’s what my partners just turned round and said to me.
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I don't give a polite reply to be honest . Every woman is so different and I say no one has the right to judge I am dead with this pregnancy cramping nausea vomiting

I don’t think k anyone is brave enough to say that to me 🤣🤦♀️

My response would not be a polite one if someone said that to me
Tell me some of your responses please? I was just speechless..😶

I literally would have upper cutted my boyfriend if he said this to me!!!! You’re literally growing a human. Give men a period, a baby to carry and labour: they’d simply would not survive!
Sometimes men aren’t educated enough, next time he has the flu say the exact same thing to him ☺️

That’s so insensitive.
I’ve been really poorly the last few days. I’ve got a cold and I’ve been super nauseous.
My husband keeps checking I’m ok, anything he can do. Tonight he asked if he should eat his dinner in a different room as he’s worried it’ll make me sick from the smell.
If my husband turned around and said that to me (he never would though!) I would say ‘oh sorry, didn’t realise you knew what it was like growing a human in your body!’
Sorry, he should be a lot more supportive. It’s such a difficult time!
He cut his finger tonight and said he couldn’t pick anything up so I was petty and said ‘you’ve cut ya finger, ya not disabled’
I wish my fiancé was like your husband :( I’m assuming his ex was fine during pregnancy to make him think like this because usually he’s so lovely :(