My boyfriend likes to bite during sex or when he's close to climax... it hurts to me... I don't like it
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I don’t think I’ve ever been bit. I don’t think I’d want to either. I couldn’t imagine it not being painful. Maybe like nibble.

Sounds like he needs a bite tube or gag ball. Nibbling can be fun, biting is inconsiderate.

Oh I had an ex that did this. I loved it, but consent is so so important. Have you told him you don’t like it? Some spots on the body are more sensitive than others, if you’re open to it maybe find a less painful spot? Or simply just tell him to stop. Consent is key.
I really don't mind it... it just hurts. Maybe he's being too rough or can't control it during intercourse

I get it. But I promise there is no reason he can’t tone it down if you tell him. He absolutely can control it, lol. If he says he can’t he’s either lying or needs to see a doctor. Just communicate with him🫶🏻

What other people like or enjoy doesn't have to have an effect on what you like or enjoy. If you don't like it then tell him you don't like it.

Yes Im a biter too but I bet it would hurt if I was biting during so I bite my lip and then go back to nibbling or whatever else once I’ve finished! That way im not unaware of how hard im biting him if that makes sense

I bite a little bit but not hard enough to mark my partner, he also likes to bite sometimes which honestly does something for me 😂 but again he doesn't bite hard enough to mark me either

I like to bite my husband and he doesn’t like it much but he still lets me. I just do it softly now. But he knows I wouldn’t like it so he doesn’t do it at all. Maybe tell your boyfriend that you don’t like it hard so he can ease up. It’s so important to communicate in the bedroom.

I am the biter 🤣 doesn’t even have to be sex and it’s weird because I was never like this with anybody else, I like my space. Sometimes I just want to bite him, but like gently? I definitely would listen if he didn’t like it or it hurt.