Not unreasonable at all. If it were me I would frankly be pissed that illness was brought into the home at all 🤷🏻♀️ I had a half sister growing up and if she was sick she stayed at her mom’s house… she didn’t come to ours to get me sick 🤷🏻♀️
@Elyssa agreed!
I feel like it’s reasonable. Maybe that’s just myself and my husband. When we brought our little guy home in May, shortly after naturally our 2 1/2 year old got a nasty cold. He asked if he could sleep in our bedroom with her since she was most comfy there and he had already caught said cold. I graciously took the couch and baby and I stayed in the living room.
Don't think you are wrong. And what's the problem of treating yourself bf's other daughter differently? She's not your child. As long as you don't treat her with disrespect. It's unreasonable for your bf to expect you to love them the same.
I feel like asking them to sleep in a different room is reasonable. It's not like you're saying she can't be there at all just give the baby some space.