Snowboarding season is coming up and me and my baby daddy are a huge snowboarders. We just had our daughter in September and he’s planning on going on some solo snowboarding trips and I don’t know if I’m being a bitch, but I don’t personally feel like that’s fair. If I have to make sacrifices I feel like he should be obligated to do so as well. When Our daughter was born. We both became parents not just me.
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Learn more about our guidelines.It just feels selfish to me that he thinks since it would be inconvenient to bring our daughter he’d rather go alone if we’re a family I feel like that should be top priority. it snows every year it’s not like missing a year of snowboarding is the end of the world theirs always next year

Can you talk to him about having some trips by yourself? Compromise with him about this and try to come up with something that works for both of you!

He should be just as much of a father as you are a mother