So, I need encouragement...

So my babies father and I have a VERY rocky relationship. I believe he is a narcissist. Constantly fighting and walking in eggshells daily always pissed off or has high expectations of something. Anyways I am 38weeks pregnant. We work on the road and he constantly shoves it in my face that I'm "lazy" and don't work but we are always moving for his jobs because he quits them or gets bored and wants to work somewhere else mind you I am also 38weeks pregnant and we have a 13 month old...I been with him for 3 years exactly so 2 of those years I basically bewn pregnant so i couldn't really do a ton especially living on the road and constantly moving. We split up when I was 32weeks pregnant and I stupidly moved with him at 36weeks pregnant and moved down south now 15hrs from my family. I am about to have this baby and he wants to move AGAIN. But back up north but I'll be 4hours from family. Would y'all make this move or be very stern and not leave here in the south since I'm so close to delivery? I'm so angry for moving back in with him I wish I stayed where I was...I just don't have the energy to pack and move all my stuff again I am just so drained this man drains everything in me.. literally what would y'all do? Also this new job he is trying to get says to be there right after thanksgiving but I'm due December 2nd and I told him I may not even have the baby yet and he's making me feel like shit for not getting up and going when I am pregnant !?!? And I also had a c section with my first child. I'm soe exhausted y'all. I want away from this guy he doesn't even seem to care about my health or well being it's all about the money and not me being comfortable but I have no help money or ride to get back "home" near my family that could help me with the baby when he's here and my 13month old ...I hate myself for believing he would take care of us and moved back in...
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Pack your bags and go be close to family and leave his ass đź’—

@Chelsea even being 38weeks and 3 days pregnant right now? I just have nothing left in me :'( I wish I never moved back but now I feel stuck and I know when new baby is here I'm going to be in so much pain and he won't help me...

As a person going through similar, I wish I left when I was pregnant. It doesn’t get better. I wish you luck 🫶🏻💜

Sending u so much strength, and leace and a big hug to you right now - this sounds so shitty and just a nightmare… is there anyone that can help u pack up and go or fly out to help? what is you delivery/obgyn situation since youve been moving so much? are u having another c- section?traveling at 38 weeks does not sound far from ideal and not sure any doctor would recommend… maybe best for urs and bbs health to stay put until after u recover from giving birth (tho being closer to fam sounds like it would help) i hope u find at least enough strength right now to just ignore his bullshit as much as possible - know in your truest of truths that you are not lazy, crazy. or wrong. were rooting for you 💗💗💗

Absolutely even when baby is here it won’t get any better and you’ll feel even more isolated, is there anyone at all that can help you? Sending you lots of love 💗

He doesn’t love you, he loves controlling you Move back in with your family - you don’t need him

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