He messaged another girl before or after we had sex (we are together for reference)
I’d say after is worse. But both is pretty damn shitty. I just say after cuz it would make me feel like I’m not doing enough. Before is also shitty tho cuz then what if he was thinking of her while doing me
Worse if it was before I guess… cuz then I would feel like a second option buttt also it would feel like i wasn’t good enough if he did it after so that’s a hard one
Before, because he did that to get horny and was thinking of her the whole time
I mean he shouldn’t do either?
Was the sex w you