Would you be hurt if your partner kept ignoring your sexy texts?

I sent my husband sexy pictures and he didn't reply to it like at all. He replied to the other texts though. I did that again another day and the same thing, just ignored. I did it again with words and pictures. And he didn't reply. I am so confused and I am going to talk to him. Just never had time yet. I am definitely offended and don't want to try anymore. He has a high sex drive, I don't. I'm trying to get it back. He sometimes sends dirty texts and I acknowledge those even if I'm not horny. I can't guess why he keeps ignoring me, I've been really making an effort. It also kills my sex drive even harder.
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When do you send them? If it's during work or while he's out or something like that I could understand him not wanting to reply to them. He should still acknowledge them when he's able to or let you know if he doesn't want you to send them while he's doing certain things if that's the case. But yes, definitely talk to him about it when you get the chance, I would feel the same as you

I send them when he's alone. Like in the bathroom or in another room always when he's alone. Never when he's at work or out in public.

Then I can't really think of a logical reason why he'd ignore them, hopefully a conversation with him will help

I would be hurt. have a conversation with him and tell him how you feel! Wouldn't hurt to try!

Maybe you’re doing it too often and he’s like ‘oh, another one’ or if he’s busy or at work maybe he’s not in the mood 🤔 I’d still be hurt though - just ask him:)

Keep us updated cause I’m curious as to what’s going through his head.

Oh he always replies to my selfies and kinky photos so I would be confused and hurt for sure. I’m direct, I would ask him direct and get an answer. Does he not like them? Does he find them OTT? Is it wrong timing? Like why tf is he ignoring them, I’d def want to know.I send them when I’m out and dressed up and feeling and looking cute so he always replies, because sometimes there’s no other convo except for that selfie so for him to ignore that would be very very obvious. In your case, he has other things to reply to as well. Just ask him you’ll know your answer then, we can only assume so much.

I'm a dick and would say you better acknowledge my efforts before I send the pics to someone else. There is nothing like feeling ignored and rejected in a marriage.

I’d definitely just sit down with him and ask what’s going on during a cuddle sesh

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