Partner getting off next to me.
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@Katia I mean if I push his hand away when he tried to feel me up and I push his hand away then idk if he could actually get inside lol
I’ve never been bother by it. My husband confessed to me that he has been doing it a lot lately since we don’t have sex. I think he was expecting a reaction and when I didn’t give one he was disappointed. We have separate rooms so I can sleep but when we shared a room, he only did it a few times in 20 years. He watches our home videos 🤣
It’s not about you having to push past your feelings! if it makes you uncomfortable then he can take himself elsewhere and pleasure himself it does not need to be next to you in the bed. Of course, there are ways for you to get involved in it if that’s what you mean and you want him to be able to do it and you join in, but if you are saying it really bothers you then I don’t think you should be trying to get rid of your feelings he should just respect your boundaries and do it elsewhere xx
It’s better then for him to cheat on you
@Ellie-May I think I want him to try harder to get me awake have sex. I love being woken up for sex and I feel like he doesn’t try hard enough so he just pleases himself next
I feel like there’s a lot of justifications here but like, if a random ass person or friend came up to you and started jacking off to you asleep or not without your ok it would be sexual assault? If you’ve told him you don’t want him to or it makes you uncomfortable, it’s the same. Why is it somehow different if he’s your partner? He can go in the bathroom and do that privately. If you want him pursue you more as you said above, he should but otherwise it’s not ok without your consent
@Amy saaaaameee
Mines hides away in the bathroom doing it I hate it
@Kita Respectfully, the bar should never be that low. She is uncomfortable, that is more important.
You shouldn't have to push past anything! If you already compromised your feelings by letting him do it the least he could do meet you half way by respecting your feelings enough to do it outside your presence. For example I used to use toys and at first my spouse was cool with it but it started to make him feel uncomfortable so I used to do it when he's at work or in the bathroom or basically anywhere he's not and didnt make it obvious that I was doing it to protect his feelings but eventually I stopped using the toys because me personally i felt guilty by doing something I know my partner don't feel comfortable with and I value his feelings alot even in situations I don't particularly agree with his perspective on things.
So next time he do that ish in your presence you tell him to get tf up and take his ass on with that bs before you cut it off and he won't have a baton to play with we not pushing through our feelings over here he's being mad disrespectful towards your feelings your his woman boo hoo.! 😂💯
Wow a lot of extreme thoughts here. If it bothers you couldn’t he do it elsewhere? Or so you want him but to at all?
Figure out what you need or want and talk to him. He can do it elsewhere if it’s a problem for you
@Sarah how tho ? Because that is her man why would you be with someone you’re uncomfortable with?
Tell him to have sex with you asleep instead. This could be really cool!