Emotional connection.

Do you feel you’ve got a good connection with your partner? And in your opinion what makes a good connection to you? My partner is very loving and sensible and kind but we lack something. I don’t always feel like he’s proud to have me and we have different morals and experiences in life. He can be quite narrow minded about things. He’s quite closed emotionally and likes his independence more than me. How can you strengthen the connection. I love him and we have a child so breaking up isn’t an option right now. I just feel like things have changed over the years and I’m scared we can’t fix it.. 😏

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Babe we all go through that it's still posy partum ... I go through all our memories it's hard all we do is taking care of the kids and it's so easy to resent them remember u won't have kids not because of him and u both love one another it's the phase the so called roommate syndrome Find time for urself to recollect ur thoughts and have peace I bought conversation cards for couples in amazon we have Friday rituals of wine and conversation to recandle ...our love it's hormones all over the body ... he might feel distant aswell but u can control over things he needs love to before u have all ur time together now u barely have so be spontaneous and it'll also benefits u.... I've been always fit and after c section so hard to go back plus my age so love urself ask him u need a bubble bath or have a gurly night out then ... couples night then family time... If he still wanna work it out and ur not alone then it's fixable hugs ... lots people that have kids go through with it ur not alone some did counseling

U got kids u had more out of that love don't give up ...

I don’t think breaking up is an option either. Relationships have ups and downs and seasons to them… having some ritual or experience might help but tbh I’m struggling too. My husband became more religious after we had a baby and now it’s driving a wedge between us.

@Victoria oh dear. I’m sorry to hear this. What kind of problems is it causing? For myself it’s just hard to feel happy when you don’t have that deep connection x

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