Agree
I think communication is more of a practical way of handling things. Find out what's really going on with her. And see if it's possible to mend things. And if not then you can distance yourself. Friendships are hard to find and IF it's worth salvaging I would try. But that's just what I would do. GOOD LUCK.
personally I find it weird she would even give your number out like that without asking you how you felt first knowing what the girl have done in the past. you shouldn’t be forced to go to her party with someone you aren’t comfortable being around she should understand your feelings and be there I understand she wants you and the other girl to work things out but she needs to let you decide that and shouldn’t force you to even have to deal with the girl on the sake of her own relation towards her.
You’re not being sensitive Your friend is not considering your feelings at all If you’re not comfortable with someone your friend should respect that and her giving your number without your permission is a shitty thing to do Makes me wonder what this friend has been saying to the girl behind your back It doesn’t seem like this is a good friend for you in my opinion because when you let little things like this slide then they start doing even more mean things
Your not being sensitive at all stand your ground and let her know how you really feel about it