Am I being sensitive?

My bestie invited someone we both use to be good friends with but own day ghost and block us. To her bday/ house warming, she's been hanging out with her, I don't have any issue with that because she can be friend with who ever as long as I don't have to deal with them. Now, she invited her to her bday/ house warming and I told her how I feel and how weird it will be for me. She kinda brush my feelings off and told the girl how I felt and gave her my number (without asking) so we can talk it out. My thing was if she started to communicate with her you thought she would reach out to me as well on her own and not told by my friend because I'm not sure about going to her party. I'm a very awkward person and shy so I try to avoid situations like that the best I can. I told her we can hang out another time to make it up my treat but she still wants me to go. My whole point is am I being sensitive or should I start distancing myself from her?
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Your not being sensitive at all stand your ground and let her know how you really feel about it

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I think communication is more of a practical way of handling things. Find out what's really going on with her. And see if it's possible to mend things. And if not then you can distance yourself. Friendships are hard to find and IF it's worth salvaging I would try. But that's just what I would do. GOOD LUCK.

personally I find it weird she would even give your number out like that without asking you how you felt first knowing what the girl have done in the past. you shouldn’t be forced to go to her party with someone you aren’t comfortable being around she should understand your feelings and be there I understand she wants you and the other girl to work things out but she needs to let you decide that and shouldn’t force you to even have to deal with the girl on the sake of her own relation towards her.

You’re not being sensitive Your friend is not considering your feelings at all If you’re not comfortable with someone your friend should respect that and her giving your number without your permission is a shitty thing to do Makes me wonder what this friend has been saying to the girl behind your back It doesn’t seem like this is a good friend for you in my opinion because when you let little things like this slide then they start doing even more mean things

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