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He was an abusive person. Physically, mentally, and sexually. I finally got the courage to leave after a year of being with him. I was also young and naive
He was in love someone else. I guess that’d be emotional distance. I knew he wasn’t in love with me anymore. I was tired of the one sided relationship and broke off with him.
He slept with my sister
I say all!!
@ᏗᏒᎥᏋᏝ🧜♀️ I'm sorry to hear that 😞
All of the above 🫡 Now 26 Weeks with his baby and having to restart my entire life.
I can’t even remember it’s been over 2 decades
All the above + abusive narcissists
I cheated on him with my now husband.
I can’t remember I was 26 or 7 at the time and I’m not sure what happened exactly. I remember that he showed up at my house several months after the fact wanting me to come out and I told him no and meant it because I was tired of all of the back and forth that had been going on with him and I found out shortly after that he passed. Which I felt horrible about as I’m assuming that when he showed up he was wanting to tell me about his terminal illness that I was unaware of at the time. I think that we may have just grew apart , wanted different things for our life or perhaps it was something that I did to sabatoge it because I knew we wouldn’t be long term . I remember him being upset with me but I’m not sure what for
ABUSE
Lies lies lies lies lies
@ᏗᏒᎥᏋᏝ🧜♀️ what a dog!!! So sorry u went through that. Can I ask how things worked out with ur sister after something like that?
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@Zaza I haven't talked to her really since then. Her first child 4m older than mine got taken from her and was adopted by my "Aunt" (family friend) and she let's my sister visit ever so often usually bday party's. Which I'll see her then and I play nice
@Zaza she's also tried getting with my now husband but he's only got eyes for me. He actually laughed in her face and called me immediately when she did that.
@ᏗᏒᎥᏋᏝ🧜♀️ you’re a bigger person than I am. Cause no way I’m playing nice! I’m sorry you went through that! 🫶🏼
I play nice because I want to see my nephew. Plus it's at someone else's house. She has 2 girls now too but I don't really have a relationship with them.
We wanted different things and outgrew one another.
@ᏗᏒᎥᏋᏝ🧜♀️ wow that is crazy!!! She is clearly very jealous of you! I love your husband’s reaction!! Like @Chloe said you’re a bigger person than me! Good on u!🙌🏾
My ex was a psycho like he said he doesnt feel basic human emotions and was an alcoholic... he scared me ,last time we saw eachother I stayed round his for a weekend where he had a psychotic break and said stuff like if you sleep next to me i might hurt you ,and if i see you naked i might hurt you more ...it was fucked up and messed up and honestly that whole weekend gives me PTSD to this day and I couldn't leave because he would threaten suicide
The guy was just a straight up c#%t and chose to resort to physical abuse one day
Domestic violence abuse…I prayed and fasted and God made a way out for me and my baby because I was not qualifying for any apartments but just at the exact right time I was able to get into one…otherwise I was going to get into a shelter and the abuse was getting so bad even his mother hit me…when anyone threatens you believe them and run! No he never actually hit me but it was verbal, emotional, sexual and financial abuse and the gas lighting was the worst!
@ᏗᏒᎥᏋᏝ🧜♀️ pray for her she is broken, your sister needs help…I know it’s hard to forgive but she is human also and hurt people sometimes hurt others and they really need help that hopefully she might want one day…I had to learn to forgive my child’s father and I really feel sympathy and empathy at times because I realize they are acting out from a place of pain and trauma…hopefully your sister wakes up and her heart changes but only higher power can do that…therapy helps also
All of the above
E) became a lesbian 😆😂
a c d
I couldn't stay in the country without a visa
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Abuse. He finally was arrested and I was able to get away from him
Mental and emotional abuse for years so I dumped him and moved 1500 miles away
He was completely fbs crazy, psychopath and nut job. I'm glad he's out of my life jeeze I'd of been dead if I stayed with him
@Holly one of mine was the psycho and another was an alcoholic drug taking cheat, who thought my money was his to take and spend on what he wanted The other one served me my pet rat on a plate for breakfast and tried to kill me
Ummm E) Lack of communication & Emotional Distance sprinkled with Toxic 🤧
i’m gonna say lack of communication because he took ghosting to a whole nother level and died (it’s ok to laugh, humor is a my coping mechanism)
@Sadie-Lynn I’m sorry for your loss. Also your comment made coffee come out my nose!
Mental and emotional abuse. It took years to call it that, and I just left a few weeks ago. He's the father of our two kids, so I still speak to him daily, and I hate it.
My mum has always been abused, controlled, manipulated, used, emotionally, mentally and physically abused by her husband, my dad. She will never leave, it's sad
Out of these options, I chose financial as that was one of the main reasons since he was really dumb with his money. But there were loads of reasons, including being a terrible parent and having views of everything should be 50/50, but the women should do all housework and childraising/caring