So my first pregnancy was absolute shit and full of drama and doctors gaslighting me but me and my SO have been talking about trying for our second and last tiny human. I’m a little on the fence because of how everything happened in the first go round and now I’m going back to college and getting my life back together from all the BS of the first go. My only kid right now is 2.5 yrs old and delayed and I feel like I’ve already got a lot on my plate without adding a new baby to the mix. But my SO brings up the point that the career I’m in college for isn’t good for pregnancies and I have some family medical history that can make it impossible later. I also plan on tying my tubes after baby number two.
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Hmmm
🤔 do you want baby #2?
It kinda sounds like yyoure not wanting it and wanna focus on yourself.
Which totally makes sense and is valid.

It doesn’t sound like you really want #2 right now. I wouldn’t push to have a baby unless you really know that’s what you want. Talk it over with your spouse in detail!

Do you definitely want 2 babies? But you just haven't decided when?