Is this fair?

So a few years ago I caught my husband having phone sex chats with a girl and I had a huge fight with him over that issue.. i felt cheated obviously and like any asshole he promised me this wouldn’t happen again. Mind you when i came to know about this shitty chats I delivered my first kid 4 months before I caught him which means he was chatting with her before i got pregnant and during my entire pregnancy. Now after all these years(4y) I thought things are fine and that he must have really changed. But no!! I was wrong.. how can a cheater not betray you again??? Im 5 months pregnant now with my 2nd baby and guess what last week we had a fight over a petty issue and i dont know why out of nowhere I visited his instagram profile and I saw they are friends again. I had a strong feeling they were still chatting and somehow I got his phone in my hands today and I checked his instagram chats and ofcourse they were chatting!!!!! Like seriously??? U make me pregnant and this is what you have to do behind my back??? Though this time there were no sex chats but why on earth are you even chatting?? And what do i know maybe they do have sex chats but through some other medium.. i dont know what to say!! I feel cheated, betrayed and disgusted and I haven’t even confronted him yet.. i dont think I have energy and space to even fight with him.. i know if I will its gonna affect me and this baby… i dont know what should I do ladies but I feel disgusted to even look at this man now!!

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You gave him a chance, he broke your trust again. I'd take him to therapy and if he doesn't agree ya know...be gone

@Susie yeah I gave him another chance to fuck my life again!! I dont know what was I even thinking..

I could forgive that stuff once. Again...just shows he blatantly disrespected you. Especially while you're carrying his baby!

I definitely feel you. It's no excuse for that at all.

Cheating men is narcissistic traites they tend to get their parent pregnant and then start cheating I have a sister in law like this, her husband wouldn't cheat when she wasn't pregnant but when she was he would cheat and even leave her for other woman...

I would get your ducks in a row and start considering how you might financially be able to get away. It's one thing having a huge row about it, which would put a lot of stress on you...it's another to be a bit savvy with it and actually start making a plan. Speak to someone you trust who can practially support you in this so you're not alone. Really sorry you're going through this. But sadly, he has shown you his true character and I think you can legitimately move on. The therapy idea is also good. I just think I'd be too angry. If you calm down enough to discuss that then go for it. But either way, start looking at how you could support yourself going forward.

PRAYER first! Therapy! If that doesn’t work BOUNCE!

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