Please tell me, am I the one who’s wrong?
So we normally visit my mil every weekend.
But lately my husband has been taking my LO to hers when I’m at work also.
But on Friday when I was at work my husband said he can’t be bothered to go so he didn’t take them.
She was also telling me to go around on Saturday but I told her it’s my nephews birthday so we can’t go on Saturday but will come on Sunday.
Long story short, now apparently she is moody due to a combo of my husband not going on Friday with the kids, and us not going yesterday.
So I told my husband we did invite her to come over on Friday so she could have came if she wished. And also that I have already told her it’s my nephews birthday so we will go to hers on Sunday instead so she should be understanding .
But my husband is saying I’m being rude, and how it’s not because she’s not understanding. So I said not to involve me and he’s like you got involved by saying this.
Like did I even say anything?
I don’t even want to go to hers today because of this now.
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He couldn't be bothered to go fri... but somehow you're on the wrong?. Nah he's on one tbh.
yup neither him or her was bothered to meet.
Yet when I say one thing automatically I’m the one that’s apparently trying to make his mum
Look bad?!
You are 100% in the right & your husband needs to get on your side and be united with you as your partner
If she wants to see her grandkids that much, then she should make the effort. Why should you guys go there all the time. Your MIL sounds so petty like grow up woman!!
My mom drives four hours almost every weekend to see her grandkids. My mom is in her late 60s… if she wanted to she would. To be honest your husband and his mom sound like they’re being unreasonable. His mom sounds entitled. I wouldn’t feel comfortable going on Sunday or I’d go and cut the visit short… better yet, I’d go Saturday and cut the visit super short to go to the birthday party since she wants you to go see her so bad on Saturday.
I can’t imagine seeing my MIL that often. 🫠
he told me how she’s got mental health issues so he will defend her
lol. toxic sons, exhibit A
Every weekend is wayyyy too often for me lol she should be grateful and you had a valid reason so they are both being weirdos
And she’s saying she doesn’t feel well, yet has invited so many of her family members around. So now we are here and idk….. she’s gonna be mad that we didn’t help, but didn’t even know she invited anyone over
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