Standing on business??

I broke up with my bd/bf of 3 1/3 years about a week ago. I had found out he was having sex with some girl during my pregnancy, at 8 months pregnant and prior as well. Of course he’s been reaching back out saying he loves me and sending me old videos and stuff, and I haven’t been responding. But today he stopped sharing his location with me and my mind is wandering…is he out with her again? I want to reach back out to him and check on him now. I hate that he did this to me because I do love and miss him but he disrespected me so much, I should never forgive him. I know I shouldn’t…tell me reasons I need to stand on business and move on. Or can this be fixed

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Pls stand on business, men rarely stop cheating once they start. He will do it again. I’ve been there before thankfully it didn’t involve a child so I kinda know exactly how you’re feeling . I hate that feeling it’s like you’re running dammmn crazy and run to your phone at every notification thinking it’s them. It’s hard I know but you’re better off moving on

That's exactly why he did it, mama! To mess with your head AND continue his bs. A year from now, do you want to be with him and tell yourself you have to just forget and forgive or do you want to see your progress after moving on?

Nah girl, he stopped sharing his location as a manipulative tactic to try to get you to reach out. A man that lies for that long without remorse is not someone you wanna be with. On top of that, cheating on someone while they’re pregnant is the biggest hurt. I know it hard to let go and I don’t know your relationship so if you want to be with him, let him know what you need from him and what he needs to do to get you back. Don’t glance his way otherwise. Stand on your boundaries and the standards you want your child to see and what you deserve

cheating on your pregnant partner is the lowest of lows. he disrespected you, let him go. if you had a daughter in the same situation what would you say to her?

You’re so strong remember that. Remember your worth! You’re better than this. It’ll hurt for a while but soon you will heal. If you go back it’ll always be in the back of your mind. Remember what you deserve 🤍 Head over heart x

Now this has happened it unfortunately can never be fixed. You just have to now stay strong for you and your babies because going back and forth will not help them in the long run and it will mess your head up. His just playing games and his now lost out so let him carry on

Do not reach out !

If a man cheats on you while you’re pregnant— he doesn’t love you. Forgive him for yourself but never go back to him. That’s a man that’s just completely disrespected you and wasted your time. There is a man out there that will be all that you want, need and more. You deserve that. Godspeed to you!!

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