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I ran out of space, I recommend a book- women don’t owe you pretty by Florence given. It made me realise my worth. Easy read - I know time is hard to find. Good luck mum you’ve got this x
My ex cheated on me and I tried to make it work for 5 years but I never was able to trust him again. It was hard but the best thing I did was leaving. Hope you are able to make the best decision for you x
Currently going through this a second time with the same partner. In my case… he didn’t change, just got better at hiding. Trust was broken and irreparable at this point. I will not be fooled again.
The best thing you can do is not go back to him, you will regret it down the line as it will always be in your mind and the trust will never truly be there again, you are worth more than how he has treated you especially when you were carrying his child, fuck that! I'd be gone x
I’ve been through similar with my firsts dad, gave him chance after chsnce, cheated when I was pregnant and promised to never do it again… I believed him. He then did it every other weekend It was the best thing that happened to me. I left him, I got myself back, my body back, my confidence back and I became an amazing mum as I didn’t have the worry of what he was doing looming over me constantly. Fast forward 3 years, I’ve found a lovely man who wouldn’t dream of hurting me or my son and we have a beautiful daughter together. I never ever worry about him being unfaithful- which never seemed possible. You don’t HAVE to accept it and you are allowed to put yourself first. Happy mum happy baby. The most positive thing about this is that you have the opportunity to make your life however you want it, now is your chance. Be brave, it’s hard and it’s lonely, but it’s WORTH it. You will find your happily ever after when you put yourself first.