After some advice re boyfriend...
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Unless you're worried about your relationship or have reason to think he's been unfaithful or interested in other women I would let this one go or its gonna stress you out. I never understand why people give such information out 😅 it's asking for trouble.
Men never cough up information like that. There’s no way he’d say her name if he knew it was an overlap
Thanks ladies, it's so easy to get worried. I actually have memories of seeing some messages in his phone years ago where he was messaging a girl regarding training and saying to her they should meet up some time (but she ignored him and never replied). Not sure if it was that girl or not but it all seems weird. Obviously I can't tell him this otherwise he'd know I'd looked at his phone. I think I must just be very insecure and worried but in the past he has arranged to or gone out with girl mates from work and lied to me about it. I don't think anything ever come of it but it just makes me more suspicious overall, hence why I always overthink things and feel the need to check his phone because of how he's been secretive in the past. He used to be a bit too friendly with someone he worked with too back at the start of our relationship and I was very honest with how I felt and he apologised (things like wanting to buy her a vibrator for secret santa, writing 'love you' in her leavers card etc) x
Do you know when he had the training? It may have only been a matter of weeks before he got together with you. I had that with my partner and a friend I was with (FWB). Also it could very well be that none of those girls are the one in question and she either doesn't have her work history on Fb or goes by a different name on there. Especially likely if it is a relatively common name.