Full Time Working Mums!!

Hi, I just recently started a full time job and I work 35 hours a week and I have a little one. I have so much mum guilt that it’s becoming so unbearable My 2yo has always been with me for 24/7 and going from that to not being able to be with her is such a big transition! Kids need there parents and she’s still little. I’m so worried and so stressed out because since she’s been having it hard. Plus she’s so confused as to who she should attach herself after me, she cry’s for me too! I feel like I made a bad choice but I can’t find any part time jobs and we need the money now since the cost of living situation. I’ve had so many melt downs and cried so badly but at the same time I feel like I don’t have much of a choice but to work. Please help me and give me any advice that might help is. Thank you
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Firstly, juggling work and family is tough!! Don’t be so hard on yourself, if this is new it will just take some time to adjust and find the new normal for you all. If it’s really not working at all and it’s too much look at other options for work. It’s not for everyone but I work shifts because I find I get a better work life balance. I work 36 hours a week (8 day weeks so my first day moves on every week)doing 1 day and 2 nights (12 hours each) then 5 days off. It works for me anyway. By all means you can message me privately and I can tell you more about my job I’m in the northwest so may not be local to you but there’s similar jobs all over the country xx

You’re setting a great example for her! Give her some time and she will settle. You will find a routine that will work best whether that be nursery, baby sitter, family help! My two year old goes to nursery Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. Monday and Friday I WFH and have a babysitter come at noon. It works great for us as the 3 days at nursery is a perfect amount for him. He’s built friendships there, they teach him things I wouldn’t think to teach, and he is exposed to food I wouldn’t normally feed him.

2 year old is perfectly fine to start going to nursery and if anything it’s best for their development to start sooner rather than later. I think your worrying too much, your still going to see her but she needs to learn a different routine to get ready for school/work life. She will adapt, try to remember you had a job/life before your child and you deserve to have some of your time back.

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