Physical Attraction

I tried it and it didn’t work out

Tried it and didn’t work for me personally. He was a GREAT guy and I know he’ll make someone happy but I couldn’t do it.

No.

I did and it worked out for me

I also tried. He was so kind but there was no chemistry

I voted no HOWEVER sometimes, when I used to date, I didn’t find the guy attractive but then got to know him and his personality made him attractive

I’ve never tried to. I have to think you’re at least cute in order to date you, additional attraction does come with getting to know people.

So according to the comments it doesn’t work out in the long run 😆 same. My ex of 7 yrs wasn’t attractive, but I really liked his style and and his personality. That was attractive enough for me. We really did fall in love & he was a really good guy but eventually we grew apart and there was nothing left. Sometimes looks is just enough for people to get by in the comfort of a fizzled relationship but I just totally started disliking him altogether. physical attraction is soo important.

I just want to add that for me… i did the whole personality thing and it worked to a degree. The men weren’t that cute but i was love bombed and it worked… and I stayed with the not so cute guys cuz i thought that’s what I wanted and the relationships failed cuz it was all based on the narc lies… not cuz of their looks… but I got to my 30s figured out I was bi… did some soul searching and now I know why i settled on men for their personalities especially now that im a lesbian 🤣🤣 I know it’s my experience and not everyone’s but a lot of late in life lesbians I have seen have a similar path as I do 🤷🏻😂

I have it didn’t work out well

I think that physical attractiveness is important, BUT I do think it’s possible to become attracted to them physical or not

I’d go on a date or two, see if anything sparks. I wouldn’t stay with them

I did and it ended and I didn't even care

Lol no trust me you want to marry someone you were attracted to from jump. Makes a huge difference 😂

I tried and didn't work out for me, couldn't even kiss him 😅

It shouldn’t be the main factor in what you’re dating them but i couldn’t date someone or be with someone I had zero attraction to either