Abusive / jealous mother in law

I live with my partner and his mum (she doesn’t have anyone else and won’t let him get his own place he’s 22) she’s always had it out for me and last week we had a conversation with her about how she needs to stop all the horrible stuff she’s saying because it’s not helping me or my partner but this morning she was up in my face calling me a slut while we were leaving for work. In the past she’s made comments about how me and him aren’t fit enough to be parents and I’m scared that all the stress she’s causing is going to cause me to have a misscarrage. I really need some advice on what to do as I feel that I currently have no support and have never felt so alone. I get called a gold digger and that I’m only gonna make his life hell and have absolutely no idea if I should talk to my midwife when I have my booking appointment tomorrow. I spent Christmas with him and his mum and my parents came round with gifts for me and I gave them there’s and all his mum has to say about it is that it’s pointless but I’m completely wrecked at the fact that me and my partner tried to have a good day went out at night and she done nothing but complain. She even has a tracker on his phone it’s like everything is to do with her and when it comes to me and him it’s irrelevant

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I’d move out. Your mental health matters.

You guys need to move out! He’s 22 she can’t force him to stay there! So sorry she’s treating you like this.

what’s your partner doing when all this happens? he needs to speak to his mother. agree with other comments though, sounds like it’s time to move out.

Is your partner quite weak? Who lets their mum track their phone 😂😂 Where do you live? Just don’t go round to her house she sounds like a witch

If he’s not willing to grow up and provide for his own family in his own place then leave him there with his mommy and you leave. That absolutely would not work for me. If he’s not speaking up when she’s saying these things, he’s also the problem.

@Hannah we’ve spoke to his mum on multiple occasions she stopped it for a week the last time he spoke to her but then she started this morning again we’re on the hunt for our own place as she says she’s moving abroad in February but we’ve had no luck so far

@Francesca I live with him and her my parents are pretty bad aswell and my mums went and got a 2 bed for my sister and her so I don’t even have a room there anymore

@Kathryn trying to find a house is the problem especially as it’s the holidays fingers are crossed for the new year also just found out I’m gonna be jobless on the 2nd

Tell your boyf you’re getting the F outta there and he’s welcome to join you! You and the baby should be his priority now. He needs to get out from under her thumb. Good luck 🤞🏻

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