Can your partner give you a back rub and not expect sex in return?
I really need my back rubbed but I know my dude can’t handle just a back rub. Like I don’t feel good my back is crampy and it would make it 1,000 times better for me. I need to know if I’m alone with this.
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or maybe he respects you and your wishes lol
He expects sex after I look at him for more than 30 seconds
It depends if it’s just me saying I want a back rub it can lead that way but I also have spd so my hips are in agony a lot and if he knows I’m in pain he won’t try he will just rub my back and get me a hot water bottle
If he knows I'm in pain he won't try it
He tries… he really tries but he gets too turned on 🤷🏻♀️😂
My husband will try but when I’m not feeling well he gets it cuz I’m hurting from my arthritis. He has started giving me a massage every night. It’s been helping my pain.
https://youtube.com/shorts/xl4j4YQwTlo?si=dBnadfeiDCEFdgKd
I instantly thought of this poll whilst scrolling on YouTube 🙈 this is the typical way most males think
All my exes would sexualize me when i got massages.. hell even hugs they just used as an opportunity to grab my ass… i personally have never gotten cared for by men without them sexualizing me… im glad i don’t men anymore lol
It depends. If I ask him to rub it when we’re dressed and doing something else like cooking or watching a movie then he’ll just rub it for 5 mins and all good. But if I ask for a massage in bed and take my clothes off then yeah it’s gonna end in sex 😂 but since being pregnant he also knows I can’t lie on my front so that changes things
and that’s exactly what it is, sexualizing me and I hate allowing that because it’s not right!
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