I’m furious rn

Eep. This is tricky.

It's socially acceptable for women to have dildos and vibrators but less socially acceptable for men to have a pocket pussy.

IF you guys were having regular sex, I would say this isn't a big deal. He bought it when he was away from you (are you guys building a house?) so it's not like he could have had sex.

But if he's using it all the time at home instead of sex, it's a problem. It's not even about the pocket pussy tbh, if he was using his hand it would be equally a problem.

I probably shouldn’t of looked further into it, but I did. He purchased this on a Monday afternoon 12pm. I was up there with our boys fri-mon. We had sex all weekend. Had sex Monday morning. I left with the boys shortly after 9am to head home. He came home and we had sex Monday night.
So what is the fuckin need for this???? We had sex all weekend and that wasn’t enough you had to go buy a pocket pussy? I don’t get it. What im ✨hoping✨is the sex store is right next to the Home Depot he goes to for supplies. Maybe he was just curious and felt obligated to buy something once in there? But why not tell me, like I said we have gone to sex stores a couple times, and would go a lot more if the opportunity was there.

Since you buy toys together and you have tried to go together but the store was closed I don’t see why he wouldn’t go there and buy something. It sounds like you own toys too so this is no different. The real problem seems to be that you two are having less sex now and it’s making you insecure which is a much more reasonable thing and you two should definitely talk about it

I don’t own my own personal toys… we have couple’s toys. And you’re right, I am super insecure and jealous of a damn rubber vagina. I can’t believe how ridiculous that sounds right now lol. But what I don’t understand is why he wouldn’t tell me, and why he would make it seem like us going to that store would be his first time visiting that store. We tried going as recently as a couple weeks ago.
All he had to say was “babe I went in there when it was open one day and got this, I want to take you so we can pick something out.” Why do I have to find it when I’m doing his finances as a favor that he asked me to do. It was like a slap in the face almost that what I gave him that weekend wasn’t good enough. The worst part is this receipt was from October. I would have never known about this had I of not done the finances.

I know you wish he had been more forthcoming about his purchase, but take a deep breath. Best case scenario, he's a little embarrassed. You both deserve to enjoy yourselves together and separately, so if that means a pocket pussy for him and a giant dildo for you, have at it!

I talked to him about it and he said so what, he wanted to go into the store so he did, what does it matter and it shouldn’t be a problem. I asked him if he liked it better and he said the only thing he likes about it is it doesn’t talk back 🤨😒
I’m trying to look at the positive in it. At least I know he’s not cheating. If he was cheating he wouldn’t have gotten that, and if he wanted to cheat he wouldn’t have gotten that. I guess I should be grateful it’s a rubber pussy and not a real one. 🤣

Sooooo what kind of toy are you getting for yourself to enjoy? 😂