I feel like this should be common courtesy but maybe not if you match with a mom on here and you see that yall matched who reaches out first?
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I thought the second person had to reach out? Since it like automatically takes you to the chat with them? Im not sure 😂

you would think but no. They show up as new connections in your messages where just their photo is at the top if neither has sent a message.

oh! I almost always am the second to swipe, so i tend to reach out 😂

I don't ever hear back 🤣

I don’t think it matters. I almost never respond anyway so I’m a bad matchee.
I mostly get Peanut prompts as convo starters anyway which is basically a non-message 🥲

Some times I’ll reach out first if I really find them interesting.

But luckily I get mommies that actually text