Husband allowed to send Goodnight X to other women?

Going to be totally honest I think I’d be a bit concerned with my husband messaging anyone that? Just seems like too personal to be sending goodnight with a kiss to your colleague. I’d be worried like you are.

Sorry that’s probably no help and hope you’re okay! Have you spoken to him about it?

It probably depends on location like I’m from the US and no one puts x at the end of messages unless they’re saying they’re sending you a kiss and even then it’s pretty uncommon but I see a lot of people from Britain on here put x at the end of comments so idk if it’s the same meaning

with saying this though (as someone from the UK) Men really don’t put an X to a message unless your like their girlfriend/wife/mum maybe at a push sister…

I would find it very weird if my husband was sending kisses to a work colleague aswell as a goodnight message. It’s definitely the same meaning it’s a meant as a kiss 😊

ohhh good to know

Yeah uk here too and women only tend to do that when we are messaging our friends, most guys don’t do it unless it’s a romantic interest.

This is a red flag! Nobody needs to message a colleague to say goodnight unless you’re literally working up to bedtime then you might say it but not with a kiss!

Yes so from all the messages it seems he depend on her a lot to transition this new career. There has been some career based flattery that felt well a bit OTT. Not professional. Little bit romantic infatuation undertones and she lapped it up. Overall its mostly business then he said Goodnight X randomly as he needed to go to bed to go on a holiday. She said Night X back then the conversation went back to normal work. They work remore from each other too but hinted to catch up and network!! I can't tell if I'm being too sensitive.

@Emilie Yes so from all the messages it seems he depend on her a lot to transition this new career. There has been some career based flattery that felt well a bit OTT. Not professional. Little bit romantic infatuation undertones and she lapped it up. Overall its mostly business then he said Goodnight X randomly as he needed to go to bed to go on a holiday. She said Night X back then the conversation went back to normal work. They work remore from each other too but hinted to catch up and network!! I can't tell if I'm being too sensitive.

exactly. See comment below xx