He normally says it’s up to me with everything like that.. and trusts my judgement. Probably just as well as I like what I like and if someone pushed for something different I’d probably be unhappy about it x
Agreed to both. Saying it’s up to me and trusting my judgement is lazy BUT I trust my judgement also and anything that differs often isn’t the right choice and in don’t trust her wouldn’t opt for the wrong one. Agreed it’s basic parenting. I didn’t think of it like that before. I’m of the mind set that the things I research are to give her and myself the best option but if she didn’t have that she’d be fine and I’d work it out the hard way.
It shouldn’t be help. It’s basic parenting. Both parents are responsible for their child and should be equally involved, unless otherwise agreed on by themselves.