is it just me? 🫠

It’s not just you! I’ve had the same experience, hardly anyone trys to keep a conversation going

Me too

I had someone tell me to pm them to talk on a post where I said I was lonely and then never responded to me like what? I give up at this point

Ive seen that alot, i get exactly what youre saying. Well I'm here if anyone actually wants to talk, like seriously

I felt this. Out of like 50 moms I’ve found 1, that i genuinely click with. Keep trying!!

Same here. It really can be exhausting

Same! You’re not alone girl! I’m ready to delete the app at this point!

Same! Like I'm really out here trying to do playmates as the weather starts to warm up and nobody messages back. 😒 😓

Okay I will be you friend. I have also been in your shoes too, we managed to take it to WhatsApp but she has since ghosted me. I feel like a bother now🙈. I always make excuses for the ladies here, motherhood isn’t easy.

Iv had the same I even met up with a mum then she ghosted me

Same! Like I’m so confused as to why they’re even on the app. I’m a SAHM to 2 and it’s like a part time job trying to find ppl to hang out with

If you ever wanna talk or meet message me here and I’ll give you my number to anyone who needs to talk or wanna hang out 😊

Same - I just want someone in the area to meet me/ ft or call and it’s bc no one ever sticks to texting anymore, I’ve met one mum off here but she lives too far :( making mum friends isn’t as easy as I thought

This is the reason why I deleted this app 2 years ago. I am now back and the same nonsense exist. Keep in mind that sometimes you don’t mesh well with someone. Sometimes your values or beliefs don’t align and that’s fine. Keep at it! You’ll find like minded friends soon. Distance could be an issue, personal lives can be exhausting, there’s plenty of factors that weighs in to meeting genuine friends on social media/internet. I for one am very shy and reserved but I try. It takes two but when you feel like you’re a bother or get ghosted it then discourages you from even trying imo.

I made a post about this sometimes ago, and since then I stopped trying...

Oh it isn’t just me then! Thought I was the problem 😄😄. One sided is extremely exhausting. I simply just give up! They say they are looking for friends and all that, but don’t even put in the effort to actually be friends! Come on!

Same that’s why I just give up on this app

Same honestly I’ve connected with so many and spend so much time trying to make a friend but it’s nothing

@Shawnea it’s not even just this app. I’ve stopped going places because being a twin mom the energy is just so different. People baby me because I have two so it hard to even go out anywhere 😣

It’s hard looking for friends on here . I’ve bonded with one mum who’s amazing . I even went to her house for lunch two days ago

@Meghan girl people baby me as well I’m a young mom with a 2 year and 7 month old I been on this app so many times and met one person on here

Sorry you haven’t had luck. I had success meeting 2 moms both our babies born in same month and now we have a group chat . I’m so grateful for them

I deleted this app for a while and then recently decided to put it back on my phone i always may not answer because I am busy or my kid is sick or I may be driving

It's 50/50 but I have gotten both sides of it. But at the same time I met a lady here two years ago and we are very very close and she's like family but the truth is you'll get out of it what you put into it. It's a two way street nowadays . It's all about matching energy. Do think about what your projecting out is usually what you'll receive in return.

Keep trying ladies! I’ve made several genuine connections with other moms that I truly like on this app. I’ve had 2 mom meetups so far and they both went great. I try not to focus on the failed conversations and keep searching for my other kindred spirits. I know they are out there. We all need community to get through this crazy journey. We got this 💛

i joined a group chat from on here on snapchat.. they just randomly deleted me like a week in 😅

I feel the exact same!! The really frustrating thing is I seem to connect best with people who live far and the ones closer seem to not be interested.

@ellie 🤍 Hahaha. I joined a group chat here too and they randomly deleted me without any heads up 😄

I think most moms aren't looking for in-person friends to meet in this season of life. They're more looking for a community to vent and maybe text. It's far easier to make friends through work/school gatherings or otherwise organically meeting than in an app.

Making friends as an adult is hard sometimes I wana give up Between work and sports people get mad I can’t always be available and i don’t drink or party so people see me as boring I’m always down for friends it’s just hard

I’m getting really discouraged on here 😕

I’m still fairly new here but I have not met anyone in my area. I thought Peanut was supposed to help you make friends but I guess if you are shy it isn’t going to be helpful. Too bad I accidentally paid for a year of plus.