So me and my partner had an argument over who gets to meet our baby.

I simply ran it by my man if it was okay for my friend to meet our son so he had a say in his life, he took that opportunity to call me a hypocrite because I told him I wasn’t happy with his ex that he now calls a friend to meet our son. The reason I wasn’t happy is because the girl has never once asked to meet me or even considered me as a thought as for my friend who was there throughout my pregnancy and does not like my man continues to this day to make an effort to meet up with him for my sake. Am I in the wrong?
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I wouldn't be comfortable with that either

Absolutely not!! I wouldn’t even let him be her friend not gona lie 😒 ex’s are ex’s

Sorry not sure if I’m misunderstanding the first bit? You asked if your son could meet your friend? Why would that be an issue for your partner??

Why are you asking if it’s ok for your child to meet your friends? I wouldn’t even think of doing that.

You ✨asking✨ and him saying no is a major red flag in my book. Are you okay? Are you and little one safe? I haven’t asked my partner if anyone can meet my little girl, I carried and birthed her😅 Discussing it is one thing but asking is another😬 As for him being friends with an ex, I don’t see a problem as such bc I was friends with mine but I would make sure my current partner knows he’s not a threat nor am I to his; and making an effort and interest does that. Regardless, you are absolutely not in the wrong, but something doesn’t sit right about this and I’m worried for you girly🧡

Is your friend a man? Not that it really matters but I’m curious if that’s why your partner has an issue. I’d never ever be comfortable with my husband talking to an ex for any reason but I’ve never had this problem because my husband doesn’t have any exes 😂

To be honest it wouldn't occur to me to ask. I just discuss things like where I'm taking her etc but other than that I don't ask. Tbh. Whenever I phrase things like I'm asking permission (usually just around family plans and childcare for my step son) he looks at me as if I'm mad.

I wouldn’t ask, I’d just mention it beforehand just like anything, theres the opportunity for him to comment. As for the hypocrite comment its bs, and an ex is an ex like is he joking 🤷🏻‍♀️🫂

My friend is a girl just to clarify 🙂 but thanks for all your opinions I’ve took them into consideration

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