Maybe start by contacting citizens advice on Monday if you’re in England?
Sounds like he found a new narc supply and wants the house to invite her over. I would try to contact lawyers that have free consultations. Learn your rights. And see if you can get child support.
First things first I would highly recommend applying for child maintenance especially if this guy has blocked you on everything. If his on the birth certificate it should be a straight forward process. Here is the link https://www.gov.uk/child-maintenance-service/how-to-apply
@Lyss agree. Classic narcissist behaviour, has probably been cheating himself and waiting for any kind of justification to make him not look like the bad guy. I feel for you OP, why was he watching your followers so closely anyway, is he controlling usually? - maybe contact citizens advice for next steps?
Sounds like he’s shifting blame. Probably up to something himself. Continue taking care of yourself and your daughter it’ll work itself out. Ignore his negativity.