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There’s not enough information present to give a definitive answer. His performance could be related to lots of different issues. For your own peace of mind, I’d recommend investigating every scenario, not just the worst one. It’s certainly worth having a discussion about.

It’s possible he was in his head thinking you didn’t really want to or weren’t enjoying it or maybe he was worried you were uncomfortable or in pain. I wouldn’t say he’s cheating just based on that. Definitely have a conversation with him about it and try to figure out why it happened together and how you can prevent it from happening again.

He is probably in his head too much worried about if you are uncomfortable or not in that moment

Also it could be because it's been a long time, one of my friends who dated my brother in law told me that when they tried having sex he couldn't get hard but I know for a fact that he hasn't had sex for over a year, so maybe the long time of not having sex made it happen

if you have no other reason to suspect that’s a pretty big conclusion to jump to. maybe he was feeling stressed, or thinking about something else. i’d ask him about it openly and try to have an honest conversation

His excuse was “I just had to pee really badly

This kind of post makes me laugh. Why would you assume he's cheating because of this? That's stupid. It is possible you know for men to lose their mojo during sex, just the same as women can!

@Kaelyn that is a legitimate reason for a guy!

lots of guys can go limp for various reasons, not everything should jump to “is he cheating”. his ‘excuse’ you say, is valid as that’s happened to my partner. also when i’ve been in the same boat in the past where i’m having sex but not necessarily enjoying it bcos im uncomfy, my partner picks up on that and it will cause him to go limp bcos he can’t enjoy sex with me if he knows im not enjoying it and he wants it to be good for both of us, even if you look like you’re enjoying it, like someone said he could be so worried in his head about if you’re comfy or not that it’s causing him performance issues, he could be stressed etc. so many reasons ! Xx

My husband was like this when i was pregnant with my 1st. He got in his head a lot because he wanted me to enjoy it and not hurt me. Same exact situation happened when i was about 30 weeks. We talked it out and i showed him how to make me comfortable and the more comfortable positions. Don’t assume he’s cheating first. Sit him down and talk to him. If he is still acting weird after, i was do some further investigating.

I wouldn’t assume he’s cheating. It could be he’s been taking care of himself whilst you guys weren’t having sex and if he didn’t realise you were going to do it he could have already sorted himself out earlier that day?

No! Is difficult for both had sex in the pregnancy because probably his head is like "I don't wanna hurt her, I don't wanna hurt the baby, etc"

And also are many kind of ways to give and receive placer without purely sex. I recommend you so much try other ways... is very good for the couple and is more confortable to you!! I made that kind of things and was a very good moment, because my body was very uncomfortable to had purely sex

Yeh he’s most likely stressing and over thinking about not wanting to hurt you love. Don’t be quick to jump to that with just this as your “evidence” so to speak. Like another lady said, I would talk and ask him about what happened during sex and if it was because of anything you’ve done, said, or whatever the case may be.

There are many reasons a man can't perform... He could just be stressed because he's going to be a dad soon. Just because someone can't perform, doesn't mean they're cheating. BUT maybe you have more information suggesting he is cheating. Idk.

My husband got weirded out once I was about halfway along in the pregnancy and we weren’t intimate very often. He said he was nervous about it because he knew I had a whole baby inside me. Maybe your partner is going through something similar. Try to talk to him about it. He may not be cheating. Pregnancy has a great impact of the Dads life too. Talk to him