is this a weird age gap š«£
Okay so for background, i am 19. My son is one and im 6 months pregnant. I split from my ex (25) earlier this year.
I got chatting to some people on tinder, just for fun really, and found a good friend in a guy who is 28 and has a daughter of his own. He has expressed interest in meeting up. we have been talking everyday for about a week?
My mum seems to think itās wildly inappropriate and weird for this man to want to meet me, given i am pregnant and 19.
Iām torn! On one end, i was 16 and my ex was 23 when we started dating and that was fine with her / in general. But i also kind of get the fact it could be weird a 28 year old is interested in a pregnant 19 year old.. I just donāt know what to thinkš i didnāt get no bad vibes off him until my mum blew her lid about it. She was seriously upset and said she was concerned that im going to get myself in a dangerous situation. I really didnāt see it as that deep!
is she right? as i think she may beš¤£
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Depends how you meet up, if you do a morning / early afternoon coffee / cake situ and then just do small things for future meetups. I personally wouldnt do anything later at night / at his until you know him or if you want to pursue a physical relationship. It could be a fetish, but on the other hand dating with kids is hard and maybe hes found it difficult too and has found an interest in you? Just be careful, but I think thats needed whenever you meet someone new
itās not weird if u guys are in the same phase of life. people forget age ā life experience. you both have children and if tinder guy knows ur pregnant obviously heās open to accepting that and seeing as heās already a single father i really donāt think itās overly weird š¤·āāļø obviously youād have to go on a few dates and feel him out but i donāt think itās that deep either tbh itās not like ur saying ur gonna get married to him or something lol and i think itās better than some random other teenager bc they *typically* arenāt parents and are just dtf a āmilfā but this tinder guy probably isnāt looking for that seeing as he also has a child, u can both appreciate being parents and respect each others time etc.
UPDATE:
i met him, it was great! got along so well and no awkward moments. Guess iāve got a man to hide from my mum for a while!
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