Feeling abit down

It’s easy enough for someone to say that you shouldn’t feel that way because you are growing a baby! But honestly it’s hard to not feel it. I completely understand feeling fat and ugly whilst pregnant and the idea of not being attractive enough for my husband to even touch me. Please try talking to your husband about how you feel. There could be anxiety for him surrounding being intimate whilst your pregnant

Omg Hun please don't be so hard on yourself! Our bodies change so much in pregnancy and I feel your pain I've put on so much weight too and feel like I'm in someone else's body. Don't worry about your hubby it's probably just a big change for him too or he might be scared thinking he's gonna hurt the baby or baby is just at the forefront of his mind so it might even just be that. Don't pressure yourself to do anything you're not comfortable with. Just remember you're growing a new life inside of you and you're near the end of that journey now. Soon you will feel more like yourself again 💓😊

@Abigail i tried to talk to him about it and tried to make him feel more comfortable. He laughed

@Hafsah I really try not to let it get too me but he makes me feel that much more ugly. I was constantly trying to reassure him and make sure he was okay and all he could do was laugh at me and how big I am

I'll be honest that's not right at all for him to act like that or say those things. But just to try and see his side maybe he's embarrassed about it so he's trying to shift the blame.. 😕

I’m so so sorry you are experiencing this!! I also put 22 kg this pregnancy and feel unattractive but I’m the one who doesn’t want intimacy with my husband (feel very sore down from pressure and spd). he still reassures me as he understands how I’m feeling. This is my second pregnancy and with first I also put loads of weight, but thankfully lost it in few months pp. you should definitely explain to him how it feels, their bodies don’t change and we are the ones going through it all. Every day I look myself in the mirror and just can’t believe how I look like 😅 but I know soon it will be over and I will go back to being myself again. It’s not gonna last forever , we are almost there. Today I actually told my husband that as soon I no longer need maternity clothes, I’m gonna give it all away, not even sell it, just give it to who ever asks first 😂😂😂 I want my jeans so bad

It makes me really sad when I see posts like this, especially as often as they arise. But I think we’ve all been there. My body has changed so much I don’t recognise myself. My partner will make the odd comment which upsets me and then I remember how much we have been through and that we are growing a human being. Our bodies are amazing. And the sacrifice we have to make to get them here is a lot. Be kind to yourself. Remember, you have grown this human all by yourself. And if your body didn’t change, you wouldn’t have this tiny human.