We work the same number of hours at jobs that are equally strenuous. Should the person who makes more money do less work in the home?

No

That makes no sense. Do they think they’re more important because they make more? Are they somehow above doing housework? Very weird.

Who thinks like this? Just because you make more money doesn't entitle you to do less at home

No way!

No you're both working. That doesn't even make sense.

I was making more than my husband when I worked and I still did everything. Although, he does help but my cleaning is a lot different than his.

Thats actually an insane take 😳 you should be splitting tasks equally.

No both people live in that home. They both should contribute towards the up keeping of that home.

But men are SO annoying about this honestly good luck. Any excuse to help less around the house I swear.

I know that’s a common practice or dynamic in some families but in my house when we are both home we share the load/lean on each others strengths. For us both to get home from work and one of us just sit/relax and not contribute doesn’t feel right for us. Of course there’s moments where one is sick or feeling really low energy and we balance each other out but on average we both are active in the house in one form or another. Cause at the end of the day when we are home it is housework and parenting so one person doing both when we are both home is a wild thought lol

No BUT he is allowed to outsource his share. If he wants to pay a cleaner to clean for him, that's allowed He would still need to contribute eg some cooking or yard work, unless he also pays a chef and gardener.

No! Let me guess, this is HIS viewpoint? 🙄

Pardon me but that’s a very 1950’s viewpoint…we’re a quarter of the way through the 21st century now.