I need advice xx

You can not change a man and you can not fight for a man that doesn’t want to be fought for,if you do that you will completely lose and ruin yourself in the process actions will speak louder than words. Rebuilding trust takes time, effort, and consistency on his part. He needs to be completely transparent and show through his behavior that he’s committed to change. Most importantly, don’t rush yourself. You deserve to feel safe, loved, and respected in your relationship. Take the time to decide what’s best for you, not just the family unit. Forgiveness is a choice, but trust has to be earned. Whatever you decide, you’re strong, and you will get through this

First of all I’m so sorry 🥺 but he cheated on you at your most vulnerable time in life. In my eyes (and my friends who have been through the same), he’s not sorry for doing it but he’s sorry he got caught 🥺 ultimately though it’s your decision if you think you can ever trust him again

You can’t change a man but a man can change. Anyone can change. How did you find out? Did he tell you? I think if he wants to fix it and you want it to work then fight for it. Do it together. Do counseling and talk about it. Was that a one time thing or did it happen multiple times.

Hey there, I am so sorry to hear that happened to you. Maybe try and sit down with your partner over a nice cuppa and have a good chat with him to remind himself about what brought you together, maybe something has changed in your relationship. Things get tough sometimes especially when you have multiple kids to raise your time together gets put aside anyway hope this helps you out a little and things get easier for you 🤗

always remember how someone treats you during pregnancy and postpartum, when you are arguably at the most vulnerable you will ever be in your entire life. I’m so sorry he’s done this to you, you deserve better 🤍

Coming from a family whose mother stayed with their father “for the kids,” leave sis. It’s not worth it. The fighting, the lack of trust, the infidelity, the stress, the anger, the resentment, it almost always gets passed down to the kids and once a cheater typically it won’t be their only offense. I know there are rare instances where things work out and get swept under the rug but remember, they are rare for a reason. It’s not worth it for you or your kids. Divorce, get therapy for you and your kids if necessary, and start building your life away. It will help you and your kids in the long run. It’s either leave now and experience temporary pain, or never leave and feel it eternally and wonder what it would have been like had you moved on. ❤️🫶🏻 I mean this with all of the care in my heart and hope it doesn’t come across the wrong way. If you need someone to talk to, let me know. I’m here for you.

It is something you will always have in the back of your mind. can I trust him? where he is ? and mostly knowing he is capable of doing it again. I’ve got a 15mo and a 3mo and been on my own since I’ve had my first. but still adjusting knowing everything will be done by you. although, life is peaceful and I believe all they do is cause you stress. you have 2 children to give yourself too. Unless it’s healthy it isn’t right for you or your babies.