In laws

My mother in law would constantly ask me, every time I saw her through both pregnancies “are you sure it’s not twins you’re very big” Not too bad, the worst one was when I had a chemical pregnancy whilst trying for my second and she said well that’s probably for the best I don’t think now is the right time for you to have a second 🫠

Husbands grandma asked me when the baby would stop crying. I said ‘he hasn’t told me how long he’s going to cry for today!’

Breast feeding is ‘unnatural’ 🙄😳🤯

I’m 12 weeks but I’m only a little lady lol so I am showing already (I was carrying twins but sadly lost one so this is also why I was showing earlier) and at the weekend I had my mother in law tell me about the diets I can start postpartum 🙃 needless to say it did not go down well with myself or my other half x

“I can’t even tell you’re pregnant” they think it’s a compliment but it was really just confirming I always looked fat 👍 It didn’t make me change how I looked at anyone but it did always make me super uncomfortable in my pregnancy

The day after I came home from the hospital and they came to meet the baby my mil asked if I would like to go into another room to breastfeed my baby! In my house! I said no, I’m fine on my sofa, thanks 🤦🏻‍♀️

'they change the rules everyday it just depends who's working. My kids turned out fine, dot. Worry about it's Also came to my house (uninvited) e days post c section and didn't even ask how I/we were doing 🙃

they always say how they’re praying for us and love us 🤍 sucks that we live far :/

My MIL was amazing - she knew I’d be missing my mum who passed away before I got married. I was hospitalised with pre-eclampsia and she got the first train to visit, then called me every day after I was discharged to make sure I was okay and had someone to talk to so I wasn’t lonely on mat leave. She was the first person (besides me and my husband) I let hold our baby when NICU said it was okay. I’ll never forget the smile on her face when I surprised her with it.

When I was packing my hospital bag, I was showing her the little shower gel and shampoo I bought for the shower after, and my MIL said ‘well this isn’t about you’ 😅 There have been good and bad comments tbh

My mil said baby only settles with me only because I have “the goods” boobs. Uh hello how about because I’m the mom and baby knows me best from being in my belly for 9 months! So dumb and rude