Would you be upset?

So I just found out you can see what people like on insta and I see my fiancé is liking a bunch of OF girls pics and thirst traps.

I feel like I could be overreacting but I just feel so sad. I’ve been feeling extra self conscious about how I look and seeing the girls he’s been liking has me feeling yucky.
But like is that on me for feeling self conscious? I’m sure liking a picture means nothing but idk.

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I thought they took that feature away. How are you seeing that ?

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Your feelings are valid… whatever you are feeling… you allowed to feel however you do. Dont gaslight yourself saying you’re overreacting. Has this been a discussion you have had before? Can you talk to him about it and explain how you feel. He should respect them and also give you reassurance 🫶🏻

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I don’t care if my man scrolls and looks at those. But why leave a LIKE. I rarely ever scroll but I certainly don’t leave a heart on anything myself, unless it’s a post/story from a person I actually know. Imo he can watch he can scroll there is absolutely no need to leave a like on those posts, coz if people scroll and they follow him, they can also see that he “hearted” it. It shows when my bestie or my friend also liked a post or even a reel etc. it’s just letting the whole following list know that yep, I’ve seen that and you’ve “left your mark” so to speak. I’d say something.

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When im watching a video, I see profile pics on the corner. When i push on it, it says “with friends “ and it’s videos that people i follow have liked. It even gives me the option to “reply to “persons username” like…

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My opinion is your man shouldn’t be showing any women interest like that. It makes their SO look stupid because that’s where his attention is at.

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He is not respecting you or your relationship i would be pissed

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When I was in a bad relationship this kinda stuff upset me. But now that I'm in a healthy relationship it don't bother me because I feel secure!

I think if it's bothering you it's because you are already not feeling very secure in your relationship in someway. (Expeshaly if you feel a little surprised at yourself for being upset)

Maybe new man?

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I still see what other others like

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