Third Kid

Ive been thinking of trying for my Third child, but i’m terrified i will struggle.
How did anyone find it the right time to do this and know it was the right choice?
How does anyone with three kids or more find it😅

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Hey, I've got 3 children and honestly, I've struggled mentally. We had alot going on as a family when my 3rd was born though, so that would have definitely have contributed to my struggles. We're nearly 6 months in, and I still find some days really hard

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Number 3 due in September. I knew I wanted another (as did my husband), I also knew I didn't want a big age gap and my husband gets really good paternity leave so I knew I'd have support when baby 3 arrives. I wasn't put off by also know it's going to be hard. I'm in the nappy trenches now and when I'm out I want to stay out rather than start over in a few years time. It'll all work out is what I tell myself xo

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I have baby number 3 coming any day (hopefully today!! 🤞🏼) we honestly weren’t sure if we wanted to keep having more or wait for a longer gap. So our third was somewhat of a surprise but also not really a surprise lol if that makes sense. All our kiddos will be 23 months apart so we will have a newborn, 2 year old and a 4 year old next month!
My hubby works from home so I knew I would have the support needed to help me recover and find my footing with three children. It’s a lot to think about for sure but I also surround myself with other moms of multiples to gain wisdom and support from! My one friend has 7 children haha I find it helps take the edge off and they always know how to give me encouragement or simply a helping hand when needed. Finding a strong supportive village for yourself makes all the difference in my opinion. That way the tough times that will come won’t feel so overwhelming.

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