Questioning sexuality

I've always been a bit curious about being with women (since my teens) but never acted on it. Is it possible to be straight and fantasise about women? As I get older I'm becoming more curious about exploring sex in general and can't shake the idea of being with a woman. Does this make me bisexual, something else, or just a straight middle aged woman who feels she missed out on experimenting in her youth 😂🙈
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I honestly think it may just be curiosity .. I’m sure most women have thought about it at some stage ..

Just try and see how you feel. Life is too short, explore what can make you happy :)

I personally resonate with the term “queer” more than any more specific label. 🤷‍♀️ It’s a personal journey in figuring out how you’d label it tho.

I’m the same as Parker and use the term queer. It helps looking at sexuality as a spectrum rather than being one thing or another. Where you fall on that spectrum will be unique to you. It’s also a fluid experience for many people, which can change over time. I’d recommend not putting any pressure on yourself and just listening to your feelings as you figure things out. Use labels if you feel that will help you, but don’t feel like you ever have to. Good luck :)

“Queer is often used as an umbrella term for people who are not straight or who don't identify with their assigned sex at birth. People may also identify as queer if they don't feel that the terms lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans fully represent them. The “Q” can also stand for questioning.”

As a late in life lesbian… I would recommend taking time to explore your sexuality. I thought I was straight until I was 32 then I came out as bi and then I deconstructed comphet (compulsory heterosexuality) which then helped me see I am a lesbian at 35. And like the others say it’s a journey and it’s fluid and can change. I am just speaking from my own experience because we all have different journeys to go on. Like don’t rush it and also try different things. I too liked girls when I was a kid and my mom said it was a phase so I just didn’t even think it was possible that I was gay. But here I am now still trying to figure out exactly what I’m looking for. But it is worth the time to invest in yourself to figure out what you want in life! It’s no rush- just enjoy the journey 🫶🏻 P.s. just dont U-Haul too soon 🤣🤣

I feel like you could be attracted but not sexually attracted I guess. I find myself very attracted to women but I couldn’t see myself being in a relationship with any woman

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