No sex drive! please help
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@Gaby yeah i understand. like some nights i will just have sex with him because he’s tried for so long and i’ve just be shutting him down and even tho i don’t want to the mans still got needs. so it’s starts as like a pitty f*ck but then as soon as hes in me im loving it and dont want to stop, which works but i just want to feel horny and jump ontop of him when he gets home from work but i just cant wait to roll over and go to sleep🙈
Are you still breastfeeding?
I have tried these libido pills and they helped me with that and I loved it. It made me have my sex drive back, but I keep forgetting to get them from Walmart. But that's how I am. Your not alone.
@Heather nope! stopped after 7 weeks x
@Gaby do you have the name of them? i’m from uk and don’t have a walmart x
Its most likely just post partum hormones still fluctuating. Depending on what medications you are on you could try libido supplements like maca root, horny goat weed, or ashwaghanda. But id also research them to make sure that they won't interact with your body negatively.
Oh okay and i do, they are called loving libido by olly. They are 600mg.
@Gaby thankyou! i will look into these! is it okay if i don’t tell my partner tho? i’m slightly embarrassed and also feel like he would encourage/nag me to take them for us to have sex x
Thats fine. And there is nothing to feel embarrassed about. It happens, trust me.
@Gaby thankyou so much🫶🏼
Your welcome, 🙂
Firstly, there’s a hormonal imbalance going on you should get your blood work done to see what vitamins you may be deficient in and also try to eat food that are good for gut health. Any problems or imbalances in the body typically stem from the gut. Second, it’s time to stay away from the adult content. The studies have shown that indulging in this will rewire your brain from being able to connect sexually with your partner to getting gratification from the hyper stimulation of the images thus Desensitizing you to your sexual reality. Abstaining from adult context at the height of arousal will allow these feeling to be redirected towards your mate. Repeatedly doing will re-train your brain to desire a new pathway for pleasure. I hope this was helpful!
I am going through this and have been. But I have found myself wanting it and not wanting it but I have noticed when we do have sex I really did want it and I tell him how I feel because he has also told me if I even want him. So I sat him down and told him what's going on so he knows it's me and not him.