Should I stop breastfeeding to answer the door?
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No, you are feeding your baby and if anyone has a problem with that it’s on them! It’s also your home! x
No, babies needs come first. If the timing doesn’t work then you can either have a conversation about what time would work best during this stage or he can have a key and let himself in, depending on your relationship.
The only time I stopped breastfeeding to answer was when my idiot ex-neighbor pounded on the door because she wanted access to my yard and startled my son into biting me hard enough to draw blood. She learned not to bother me again.
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@Jodie thank you! I just don’t want to be told I’m rude but I’m an overly anxious person and overthink a bit too much
If you don't feel comfortable giving a key, you can get one of those key pad locks and change the pin whenever. That's what we did. I ignored whoever was at the door and my parents/in laws knew to come in quietly if I didn't answer.
No i feel you im the exact same!! And breastfeeding can feel awkward at times especially with certain people but i also remind myself that i’m only feeding my baby and if other people are uncomfortable that’s on them!🫶x
I never do no matter who it is lol.
I’ve walked to the door while breastfeeding 😂 but no! I would send a message saying the nap schedule and that you will be occupied. Give them a key or leave one outside where they can find it. It’s up to them to respect the time or come in quietly.
I just answer the door with baby on the boob, my poor baby gets taken all over whilst on the boob 🤣
Could you just leave the door unlocked for him to come straight in?
If you’re there alone then there’s absolutely zero reason for your father in law to be visiting you alone in your home. If he is seeking time with your child’s father then the father in law can do it when he is present.
If the father in law is seeking time with the grandchild this can especially be done in a more supervised environment with both parents and outside of the home.
@Yana thanks so much for saying this. I secretly felt uncomfortable but didn’t want to seem like I’m overreacting. He’s been grumpy with my husband and not that nice to be around so my husband doesn’t wanna be around him and the same with his dad :/
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Always remember that you are 100% entitled to protect yourself and nobody will ever judge you for doing what is best for your safety. Please don’t be afraid to do what matters most for your safety and safety of your baby.
I’m also going to say this if you’re uncomfortable and especially if the relationship is not well with your husband and his father, then don’t ever be there alone with him and your baby. People can be unpredictable and your safety is imperative to your child. I’m not saying something will happen or will not happen. However if you’re feeling anxious or worried then it could be your intuition that you should be aware of your surroundings while he is present. So it’s best to be mindful and safe than sorry for your feelings.
@Yana I will definitely give this whole thing a lot more thought, thanks again
You deserve to feel safe in your own home. If you don't feel safe or you are uncomfortable you have every right to say the timing doesn't work. It's baby's nap time. Full stop. Suggest a time that your husband can be there. I really hope it's going better now.
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