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I don’t know that I’d leave but definitely have a talk.
It's seems very rude. I would have a talk and address any sexual tension that could be going on. Needs not met, etc. But you are allowed to not be into it. Women's experience is more mental, so if you're not in the mood then it's not going to go well.
He pushed you off the couch because you didn’t want to have sex???
@Lindsay yes
Yeah... He would definitely not be getting sex for a long time after a stunt like that. That's awful. I'm so sorry he did that. You need to at least have a talk and set things straight, if this is the first offence. Otherwise, plan your exit, it's only going to get worse, unfortunately.
@Enola yeah when I withhold sec he says he needs it so bad that he has so much stress. So I feel like I’m just being used to release that …another time he got mad because I didn’t want to after an argument and it lasted a month.. he got mad and told me he was going upstairs on the couch and to be there because he wanted it. I felt so forced and didn’t do it..his anger led to him grabbing the metal babygate off the wall and throwing it in the hallway. The kids were asleep at this time smh
Yes, 100%. I misread. He's a) being childish and b) being abusive. You are allowed to not be into it