Miscarriage?? And Beach??

I’m 99% sure I’m having a miscarriage rn I’m 5 weeks and 3 days and my family has plans to go to the beach on Wednesday. I’m wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation. I’ve had one miscarriage the first time I got pregnant but it was silent and incomplete and I needed a D&C so it was a different situation. I’m wondering if I’ll be okay to swim and stuff obviously I won’t be able to wear a tampon but I know because the cervix is “open” it probably isn’t recommended that I swim. But idk anybody been in the same boat?

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So sorry to hear that, never been through one but my only advice was is to speak with your doctor or nurse. Sending hugs x

Don’t swim please wait until the bleeding has stopped

I'm sorry you're going through this again.

I personally wouldn't do it.
I had a miscarriage once and it was so bad. I was in the bathroom and/or bed all day long. A lot of bleeding, a lot of pain. Physical and emotional pain.

If you're not bleeding too much on Wednesday and you feel okay, then do it, I'm sure it's mentally easier to have family around (no matter if they know ot not) but please don't go in the water. I wouldn't want to risk an infection.

it’s probably going to be too cold anyway. I just started cramping and bleeding a little heavier. My first miscarriage was nothing like this. I didn’t bleed at all so this is new. When I called my OB they said that it sounds like implantation bleeding but I bled a little around when my period was supposed to be just one time and I would have been around 4 weeks then and today I had the cramping and I’ve been bleeding noticeably each time I go to the bathroom and cramping worse than I do on my period so I’m pretty sure it’s not just implantation.

I would go to your local urgent care or emergency department to see what’s going on and ask them if it would be okay.

I don't think you should go to the beach. Rest at home.

I was told not to do anything until the miscarriage was "complete" and I bled on and off for 2 weeks. I would take it easy and just rest as much as possible. X

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Oh my God, oh my God I hope this is not true!!!! I’m kind of scared

I’ve been throwing up and taking a shit all night!!! I just hope that it’s not what I think it is

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They said everything was fine whilst we were in the scan and then I got a phone call the next day saying that it’s on the small side and we’re being referred to a paediatric specialist at St George’s. Has anyone else had this and how did things go??

Would you bring 9 week old to a family party of 35+ people?

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Induction experience

I just wanted to share my experience with being induced as I wasn’t sure what to expect and thought it may help others.

I opted for the foley balloon which was inserted at 8am Saturday morning, I had to stay in hospital due to hypertension and protein urine however usually you can just go home once this has been done. The insertion of the balloon was not painful, was slightly uncomfortable as there was slight pressure. I actually found having the cervix checked prior to be worse (again not painful at this point just uncomfortable) The balloon had little effect and after having it removed I was still only 1cm. Removal also was pain free and hardly even noticeable.

I then had my first dose of the gel and definitely noticed a difference, I started experiencing period like cramps almost immediately however they were light and manageable. After 6 hours I had another cervix check and although my cervix was soft it was still only 1cm and was only open at the front. I had another dose of the gel and felt an increase in pressure and more intense cramping where I now required pain relief (codeine). After another 6 hours I had another cervix check and I had now dilated to 2-3cm however was still quite difficult to get all the way through so a third gel was recommended which I agreed to.

Almost immediately I noticed the difference and was in considerable pain, I had paracetamol and codeine however the contractions had now become intense and a lot closer together (around 3 minutes apart). After a couple of hours I had my last cervix check and was 4cm and taken down to the Labour ward to have my waters broken and an epidural.

I had been in my room for approx 20minutes when my waters broke by themselves and I was now 10cm and actively pushing…. There was no time for the epidural and my beautiful girl arrived into the world within 2 minutes of pushing.

All in all I would say the cramps/contractions were manageable up until the third gel where it became pretty unbearable however it was for a very short time a gas and air helped take the edge off. The worst part about any of it was actually the later cervix checks where after stimulating the cervix my contractions were at their most painful.

If I had to be induced again I would skip the balloon and opt for the gels immediately as thy had a quicker effect and I would have been out a lot sooner if I had done this to begin with.

One more thing, I’ve never believed when people say “you forget the pain once they’re here” but I can honestly say this is true. It’s been 4 days and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.

Anyone else experiencing this?

Gave birth (vagina) 5 days ago and yesterday morning and this morning getting lot of pain in my right bottom side and lower back