Relationships

Playfully yes, out of anger etc. absolutely not!

If you lay an ill hand on any partner regardless of gender you are trash.

Jokingly or if he scares me yes but not hard. If he’s doing something that hurts I’ll bop to get his attention but nothing out of anger or ill intent. I always say equal rights equal fights. I wouldn’t want him to hit me so why would I hit him

Girl. Have you?

No i haven't, i never would. My partner slapped me across the cheek today

Are you okay?

Not really he left this morning and has took both of our children. He won't answer the phone xx

Listen, I'm not in the business of telling people what to do, so i won't tell you to leave even if I pray you do.
I am going to advise you to file a police report. It does not matter if you decide to forgive him when he eventually returns. It does not matter if you love him and don't want to see him in problems. It really does not matter if it's his first time, and he promises not to do it again. Take yourself to the police station and get this on record.

One hit is never the end.
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
I pray you get those babies back safely.

Why did he take both your children?? Do you know where they are?
Do you need to call the police?

i think he's done it out of spite, we had an argument this morning and left. I am currently trying to get in touch with his mum to see if she knows anything xx

Playfully yes. Though there was one time when we were playing fighting I threw his trousers at him but didn’t think about his belt and buckle hit him hard on the head. It’s been a decade and I still feel bad. 😰

Sending you a big hug Incog, you’ve literally just had your whole world flipped upside down 🧡

I pray your children are safe and that you find out where they are. That’s pure evil just taking them like that.

If you can, contact Womens Aid and talk to them about what has happened and how they can help you. He’s been violent towards you hun, violence only ever escalates. You are worth so much more than being in an abusive relationship. 🫶🏽

https://chat.womensaid.org.uk/?gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAqv7BQMJctkPMTzC5uvI5DshLjA2B&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI8by9kJCwjAMVm6NQBh0HzCwIEAAYASABEgLCmvD_BwE

Idk where you’re based but I’d call the police and report your children as kidnapped. I’d also report the assault against you. I hope you find safety and support soon!

No but we do try to subdue & pinch eachother. 😭 I think its funny

Did you get in touch with your MIL??

Lightly smacked as a joke yes not hit, hit. We don’t hit each other. I’m SO sorry to hear he’s slapped you across the cheek, my husband is very anti-domestic violence he hates that shit.

On time when he was drunk and he pressed charges. Never left a mark or even a bruise

Does smacking his butt count as hitting?

Playfully only, I’ve never hit my husband out of anger, and he’s never hit me out of anger.

I have slapped him in the face a couple times, the first time being when I was 4 months PP & had bad PP rage. I’m not perfect & I’ve always apologized.

Last night my husband kept smacking my butt and I had told him stop several times while doing laundry. He snacked my ass again when I picked up a onesie that i dropped and so I whipped around and hit him with the onesie and he said ow! Well I ended up hitting him with the snap part of it. Like dude I asked you to stop and you didn't, you deserved it.
But never full on red marks or handprints

Any update today Incog?