My partner wants me to have an abortion but I don’t!

Hello ladies, I just wanted to have some advice! I am over 3 weeks pregnant but my partner wants me to have an abortion as he says he’s not ready to have a baby but I don’t want an abortion. I’ve been trying to convince him that we can both manage our child and I’m sure our situation will change in due time however he still is adamant that he doesn’t want our child!! I’m in a dilemma now as I really don’t want to terminate my pregnancy.

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Honestly? you need to analyze the entire situation and prepare for the risk you may end up doing it alone as he is adamant. Aside from that though you can do it! its your body and if youre ready? GO FOR IT. its a beautiful experience.

This is one of the hardest situations you can possibly find yourself in. I agree with Dys, if you want to keep your baby you will have to accept that you may become a single parent. With that being said, I’m sure this would have come as a shock to him if this was unplanned, perhaps give him some time. If your heart is telling you to keep your baby then that’s what you should do. It’s a common saying that women don’t regret the children then do have, but the ones that they didn’t. I had a similar experience to you but I’m not comfortable explaining on a public platform. Please feel free to message me xx

Im sorry to hear and im sorry to say this but Im afraid your partner will not change. The birth of a child will send you and him to something totally new, it is very demanding physically, emotionally and mentally.You need all the support you need. If he is not ready now and have been vocal about it, then im afraid you could face being on your own. Please review all your options and prepare yourself. Wishing you the best. X

Original poster, please message me directly x

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